Resistance to Your Natural Self Confidence is Blocking Your Progress

Our society is increasingly full of stress, and that stress is caused by resistance. When something is flowing naturally there is no stress involved, so it will serve you well to eliminate as many of these blockages from your experience as possible.

If you were able to completely believe in:

Yourself

Your Worthiness

Your Value

Your Potential

Your Natural Well-Being

Your natural Self Confidence would be available for all to witness in each moment.

But at present that is not the case because you have built up resistance through the development of inaccurate beliefs. You have not done this consciously of course, but it has been a natural process as you have internalised the Judgments of those around you that you have deemed to be significant.

Those judgments have been uncomfortable and painful to you and at an early age you decided that you did not want to experience that pain again. This role has been performed on your behalf by the Inner Judge who has developed avoidance strategies to ensure that you were free of the pain experienced from these judgments.

It is these very avoidance strategies that signpost where your barriers to greater success are buried.

If you are really honest with yourself which circumstances, situations or events are you avoiding?

Social Situations

Public Speaking

Being Centre of Attention

Competition

Relationships...

Your answers will point you towards the root cause of your limited self confidence.

The Inner Judge is very clever though, and has already presented you with a rationale to justify why you avoid certain things.

You must decide if you are prepared to confront your Inner Judge and begin the process of freeing yourself from the inaccurate beliefs that are blocking your path to becoming all that you wish to become.

Why not take the Self Confidence Test NOW? it only takes 3-5 minutes.

The Self Confidence Test

Please note that all fields followed by an asterisk must be filled in.

First Name*
First Name*

E-mail Address*
E-mail Address*

When Do I Feel Least Self Confident?*
When Do I Feel Least Self Confident?*

	When I Am Alone
	When I Am In A Social Group
	When I Am At Work
	When I Am With My Family
	When I Am Meeting New People

For How Long?*
For How Long?*

	Since I Was A Child
	Since I Was A Teenager
	Since I Was An Adult
	In The Past 5 Years
	Only Recently

What Triggers This Low Self Confidence Issue?*
What Triggers This Low Self Confidence Issue?*

	Being the Centre of Attention
	Feeling Inferior to Those Around Me
	Facing a New Challenge
	Being Tested or Assessed
	Memories of Past Experiences
	Not Knowing What to Say or Do

How Often?*
How Often?*

	Many Times In A Day
	Daily
	Many Times In A Week
	Weekly
	Occasionally

My lack of confidence is also triggered by....add here

My Top Three Most Negative Emotions When I Lack Self Confidence*
My Top Three Most Negative Emotions When I Lack Self Confidence*

	Optimism
	Hopefulness
	Contentment
	Boredom
	Pessimism
	Frustration
	Overwhelmed
	Disappointment
	Doubt
	Worry
	Blame
	Discouragement
	Anger
	Revenge
	Hatred
	Jealousy
	Guilt
	Depression

What I Most Don't Want To Happen To Me Relative To This Confidence Issue*
What I Most Don't Want To Happen To Me Relative To This Confidence Issue*

	To Feel Unloved
	To Be Criticised Or Judged
	To Appear To Be Not Good Enough
	To Feel Unworthy
	To Be Ignored
	To Be Shouted At

What I Most Want To Happen To Me Relative to This Confidence Issue*
What I Most Want To Happen To Me Relative to This Confidence Issue*

	To Feel Really Good About Myself
	To Be Appreciated By Others
	To Be Liked By Others
	To Be Successful
	To Be Happy

Where Have I Been Focusing My Attention?*
Where Have I Been Focusing My Attention?*

	I Am Very Clear on What I Don't Want
	I Am Clear on What I Don't Want
	I Have No Idea About What I Do Want
	I Am Clear on What I Do Want
	I Am Very Clear on What I Do Want

What I Believe Is Stopping My Progress Most*
What I Believe Is Stopping My Progress Most*

	I Am Not Good Enough
	I Don't Deserve To Be Confident
	I Cannot Change
	I Don't Know What To Do
	My Challenges Are Unique
	Nobody Cares
	I Never Get Any Better
	I Have Lost All Hope

What I Most Want To Believe*
What I Most Want To Believe*

	I Understand That This Challenge Is a Normal Part of Life
	I Am Learning Exactly Where My Resistance Is
	I Know That I Can Easily Be More Self Confident
	I Know That I Am on the Right Track
	I Know That I Am Making Progress Each Day

My Readiness To Change*
My Readiness To Change*

	I Want To Improve My Self Confidence Right Now
	I Want To Understand More Before I Act
	I Am Intrigued But Not Ready To Act Yet
	I Am Resigned To Lacking Confidence

My additional thoughts are...add here

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