Believe In Yourself And Your Self Confidence Shines Through

Do you believe that:

� You are free

� You are powerful

� You are loved and loving

� You are good

� You are worthy

� You have value

� You have purpose

� All is well

If you don't then your emotions will rarely be at their most positive, and you will experience stress and resistance. Resistance appears when you believe that you are vulnerable or susceptible to something that you do not want and you therefore maintain a stance of protection, which only holds you in a place separated from your own confidence and true power.

Believe in Natural Self Confidence

If you are looking to improve your self confidence then the time has come to:

Become conscious of the key beliefs that are limiting your confidence

Establish personal, empowering beliefs that will maximise not only your self confidence but your happiness with your life

You are very selective about the car you drive. You are very selective about what you wear. You are very selective about what you put in your mouth to eat. I want you to become increasingly selective about what you think and what you believe.

A belief is nothing more than a thought that you keep thinking. Your beliefs are the foundation for who you become as a person. You have utilised your whole life experience to develop and amend your belief system.

Some of the development of your belief system has occurred consciously, where you have explored a subject and determined for yourself what you believe to be true. I will call this an Internal, Conscious Belief. Or you might have readily and knowingly accepted the beliefs and opinions of influential others - parents, teachers, employers, peers - I will call these External, Conscious Beliefs.

However much of your belief system has developed unconsciously. It is here that it becomes critical to increase your awareness of your own beliefs whether they originated externally or internally.

Every conscious thought that you have has a Sponsoring Belief from within your belief system behind it, which you will often be unconscious of.

The sponsoring belief will have become established at some point in your life as you faced various situations and interacted with pivotal people in your life. All sponsoring beliefs are based in either: Faith or Fear.

The key to becoming more conscious of your beliefs, therefore, is to identify the nature of the sponsoring belief and if it is fear based, transform it into a faith based belief that supports realisation of your desire. Faith based beliefs provide the strong foundations needed to have a strong and stable platform for self confidence.

If you are focused on a particular desire that you do want but you are experiencing negative emotions with regards to it, then you now know that you have identified the location of a sabotaging, sponsoring belief. This sabotaging belief has the power to orientate your thinking more towards the absence of what you do want not the presence or emergence of what you do want. Such a sponsoring belief will always be accompanied by a negative emotion.

Your work is to replace it with a supporting belief based in faith that will orientate your focus more and more towards believing in the presence or emergence of what you do want, which in turn will be accompanied by positive emotion.

Ultimately your work is to uncover and replace any sabotaging, sponsoring beliefs as your attention is drawn to them by your emotions.

Examples of Desire Supporting Beliefs:

Things always work out for me

I love and approve of myself

I believe in myself and my capabilities

I can be, do or have anything of my choosing

I appreciate every aspect of my life experience

Everything that I desire is lined up for me

I have total faith in my natural well-being

All of my actions are inspired

Happiness is my natural birth right

My primary intention is to be happy now

As you increasingly populate your belief system with desire supporting beliefs your natural self confidence is no longer being resisted and it shines through and lights up your journey to what you do want.

Why not take the Confidence Test NOW? It will only take 3-5 minutes.

The Self Confidence Test

Please note that all fields followed by an asterisk must be filled in.

First Name*
First Name*

E-mail Address*
E-mail Address*

When Do I Feel Least Self Confident?*
When Do I Feel Least Self Confident?*

	When I Am Alone
	When I Am In A Social Group
	When I Am At Work
	When I Am With My Family
	When I Am Meeting New People

For How Long?*
For How Long?*

	Since I Was A Child
	Since I Was A Teenager
	Since I Was An Adult
	In The Past 5 Years
	Only Recently

What Triggers This Low Self Confidence Issue?*
What Triggers This Low Self Confidence Issue?*

	Being the Centre of Attention
	Feeling Inferior to Those Around Me
	Facing a New Challenge
	Being Tested or Assessed
	Memories of Past Experiences
	Not Knowing What to Say or Do

How Often?*
How Often?*

	Many Times In A Day
	Daily
	Many Times In A Week
	Weekly
	Occasionally

My lack of confidence is also triggered by....add here

My Top Three Most Negative Emotions When I Lack Self Confidence*
My Top Three Most Negative Emotions When I Lack Self Confidence*

	Optimism
	Hopefulness
	Contentment
	Boredom
	Pessimism
	Frustration
	Overwhelmed
	Disappointment
	Doubt
	Worry
	Blame
	Discouragement
	Anger
	Revenge
	Hatred
	Jealousy
	Guilt
	Depression

What I Most Don't Want To Happen To Me Relative To This Confidence Issue*
What I Most Don't Want To Happen To Me Relative To This Confidence Issue*

	To Feel Unloved
	To Be Criticised Or Judged
	To Appear To Be Not Good Enough
	To Feel Unworthy
	To Be Ignored
	To Be Shouted At

What I Most Want To Happen To Me Relative to This Confidence Issue*
What I Most Want To Happen To Me Relative to This Confidence Issue*

	To Feel Really Good About Myself
	To Be Appreciated By Others
	To Be Liked By Others
	To Be Successful
	To Be Happy

Where Have I Been Focusing My Attention?*
Where Have I Been Focusing My Attention?*

	I Am Very Clear on What I Don't Want
	I Am Clear on What I Don't Want
	I Have No Idea About What I Do Want
	I Am Clear on What I Do Want
	I Am Very Clear on What I Do Want

What I Believe Is Stopping My Progress Most*
What I Believe Is Stopping My Progress Most*

	I Am Not Good Enough
	I Don't Deserve To Be Confident
	I Cannot Change
	I Don't Know What To Do
	My Challenges Are Unique
	Nobody Cares
	I Never Get Any Better
	I Have Lost All Hope

What I Most Want To Believe*
What I Most Want To Believe*

	I Understand That This Challenge Is a Normal Part of Life
	I Am Learning Exactly Where My Resistance Is
	I Know That I Can Easily Be More Self Confident
	I Know That I Am on the Right Track
	I Know That I Am Making Progress Each Day

My Readiness To Change*
My Readiness To Change*

	I Want To Improve My Self Confidence Right Now
	I Want To Understand More Before I Act
	I Am Intrigued But Not Ready To Act Yet
	I Am Resigned To Lacking Confidence

My additional thoughts are...add here

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